and so they say, if you don't follow traditions then you are not serious. I'm talking about marriage here. First of all, I would like to say that traditions are formed by other people so why do we have to follow what others are doing? Why can't we form our own traditions and have a nudist wedding on a nudist beach on a cold winter day and experience severe shrinkage and erect nipples? That's just judging without a basis.
To everyone else who attends a wedding dinner will eventually have that memory blurred away because to them, it's just another wedding dinner...how many do we have to attend such of these in your lifetime? Like it or not, it becomes a chore. How many times have I heard friends complain about having to give red packets at a Chinese wedding? To me, a wedding should be a celebration, not a chore.
I even heard that in Hong Kong, they even announce the amount of money you've given to the couple...so you ought to give more if you don't want to be embarrassed. The society we live in has created us to live in fear and paranoia, we have to keep up with the Kardashians and show face to other people. Silly isn't it?
So, are traditions a result of a society gone mad or are we keeping traditions because they are traditions?